Disappointment and Sorrow

All of us have had, or will experience, disappointment and sorrow. When difficulties discourage us, the feelings that come from these setbacks are not appreciated. However, disappointments, sorrow and other kinds of emotions are part of life. Someone may say something or do something that is opposite of what we thought they would say or do. A broken relationship, sickness, or loss of a loved one may cause sorrow. Though disappointments, sorrow, and grief will sometimes be more than we can bear, there can still be a ray of hope. In writing to the people at Corinth, the Apostle Paul said, “I have great confidence in you; I take great pride in you. I am greatly encouraged; in all our troubles my joy knows no bounds” (2 Corinthians 7:4). Notice the aspects of this verse which are related to disappointments:

1)    People are Important.  The statements “I have great confidence in you” and “I take great pride in you” imply that the Apostle Paul was doing what he could to encourage the people to whom he was writing.

2)    Difficulties Abound.  “All our troubles” suggests that Paul faced great difficulties because obstacles and problems confronted him along the way.

3)    Encouragement is needed.  When Paul said, “I am greatly encouraged” people understood that he was being positive about the action they had taken and he was also providing encouragement and hope to help build them up.

4)    Joy is Available in Abundance.  It might seem contradictory, but the phrase, “My joy knows no bounds” helps us understand that even through difficulties, Paul experienced great contentment, peace, and unbelievable joy.

You might wonder how Paul could have extraordinary joy while going through difficulties. In the Bible, Nehemiah said, “Do not grieve, for the joy of the LORD is your strength” (Nehemiah 8:10). God can, and will, provide strength for you and give you joy that does not depend on any specific situation. Even though you may experience disappointment, sorrow. or grief the Lord stands ready to provide the help that you need. If you put your confidence in God, trusting Him as your savior and Lord, you will find extraordinary joy that you never knew was possible.

What difficulty are you facing today that is discouraging? What makes you feel like you should give up? Turn to God and put your trust in him as your Savior and Lord.  He is ready to provide extraordinary help and much joy through your difficulties and sorrow.

What is Needed

Has someone ever done something for you which you appreciated but you failed to respond to them?  Maybe you just forgot to thank them.  Have you ever done something for someone who seemed to appreciate what you did, but did not respond to you?  Maybe they just forget to respond.   Obviously, there is something that is needed in these situations which is sorely absent.  That something is an expression of thanks from a grateful heart.

The Bible tells us that Jesus came upon 10 individuals who had a communicable disease.  They stood to the side (as they were required to do) but they called out to Jesus for help.  Jesus told them go show themselves to the priest.  When they did, each of them was completely healed.  Scripture goes on to say, “One of them, when he saw he was healed, came back, praising God in a loud voice” (Luke 17:15).  What a gracious response this was.  Jesus asked him, “Were not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine?” (Luke 17:17).  Good question.  For the nine men, thankfulness from a grateful heart was missing.

When we have been helped or encouraged by someone, we need to be thankful, express our thanks to them, and give God the thanks that he deserves.  During this November and December let’s not get so busy that we forget to express our thanks when someone does something for us. The Bible says, “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). This verse suggests several things:

1)    We need to be Thankful.  “Give thanks” implies that we should be active in our expression of thanks.  As soon as an act is completed, we need to say, “thank you”.

2)    We need to be Thankful in all Situations.  “In all circumstances” means that whether times are good or bad or even if thankfulness does not seem to be the right thing to do, we need to gratefully respond.

3)    We need to Remember that it is God’s Desire for us to be Thankful.  “God’s will for you” suggests that when we show appreciation, God is pleased and we are doing the right thing.

What about you?  Do you need to be more expressive in giving thanks to God and to others?  Let’s follow the example of the individual in the biblical story who came back to express his thanks.  Each day this month try to take time to express thanks to God for at least one thing he has done for you. Then, find one other person with whom you can share your gratefulness.

Protection and Restoration

In the book of Psalms in the Bible, David made some interesting comments about who God is and what God does for him.  He said, “But you, Lord, are a shield around me, my glory, the One who lifts my head high.  I call out to the Lord, and he answers me from his holy mountain” (Psalm 3:3-4).

Foes of David told him that God would abandon him.  That was devastating news.  However, in the face of the worst that could be thrown at him, David found comfort in the character of God.  In these verses David reminds himself, and us of several things:

1)    Protection. “You, Lord, are a shield around me.” God is in the business of providing security.  In spite of danger God is always present like a shield or a fort to make sure there is safety, security, and defense in all situations.

2)    Source.  “You, Lord, are … my glory.” This is a prompt to help remember that God is the source of any honor that may be given to people.  Any reputation that may have been personally attained is not the result of human effort. It is God who provides out of His storehouse of abundance.

3)    Restoration.  “The One who lifts my head high.”  This is an expression of God’s mighty power to show his strength, rebuild a broken life, and renew a sense of peace.  In a state of defeat, depression, and fear, God relieves stress and reinstates to former happy and honorable conditions.

4)    Response.  “I call out to the Lord, and he answers me.”  This is a notice that God is always available to listen to his children, reply to their requests, and provide help and encouragement.  One does not have to worry that God does not hear or respond.  He does - in abundant measure.

We may find ourselves down physically, mentally, socially, or emotionally.  However, God is the One to whom David and you and I need to direct our attention.  He is the divine source that protects us, restores us, and communicates with us.  I’m so glad that God is in the protection and restoration business. Have you taken time to draw upon God’s promises, as David did?  Maybe today is the time to begin or develop your relationship with God. Read again the verses noted in the first paragraph and remind yourself of God's protection and restoration.

What God is Doing that is New

I am always amazed when I consider information in the Bible which explains God’s desire to do something new for us, with us, or through us.  For example:

• God wants us to have “new life” (Romans 6:4).
• When we die to our sins we can “serve in the new way of the Spirit” (Romans 7:6).
• Communion is a reminder of a “new covenant” in His blood (I Corinthians 11:25)
• In Christ we are a “new creation” (II Corinthians 5:17).
• In Christ we are to “put on the new self” (Ephesians 4:24; Colossians 3:10).
• Christ is “the mediator of a new covenant” between God and man (Hebrews 9:15).
• We can come boldly before God in prayer because of the “new and living way opened for us” through what Jesus did on the cross (Hebrews 10:20).
• Through Christ we have “new birth” (I Peter 1:3).
• When speaking about Israel, God said, “See I am doing a new thing!  Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?  I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland” (Isaiah 43:19).

Let me ask, what new thing is God doing in your life?  What do you sense is the “new thing” that God is doing in your church?  What new thing is God doing in your family?  What praise is on your lips to God for the new thing that He is doing for you, for your church or for your family?  Maybe, if we take time to carefully look at and acknowledge the things that God is doing in our lives, each of us can say that he will put “A new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God.  Many will see and fear and put their trust in the Lord” (Isaiah 40:3). That would be a wonderful testimony of God’s grace and a great encouragement to others around us.

Encouragement

There are many things that happen in our world which become a discouragement to us such as violence, fatigue, stress at work or at home, difficulties with finances, fighting, wars, health concerns and many other things.  When we experience problems, we are faced with pressure that drains us of our strength and energy. Being discouraged means that we have been deprived of our confidence and hope.  All of this is debilitating and saps the joy from our lives.  If that is the case for us, it is the same for other people.

When discouragement sets in, we desperately need something that lifts us up, encourages us, and lessens the negative or at least turns it into something positive.  In Scripture the Apostle Paul points to important instruction on this topic when he says, “May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you a spirit of unity among yourselves as you follow Christ Jesus, so that with one heart and mouth you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ” (Romans 15:5-6).

Here are some implications for us from this verse:

1)    God is the source of spiritual encouragement – “God who gives endurance and encouragement.”   We will never find eternal encouragement in “things of the world” but only in that which God provides.

2)    Spiritual encouragement leads to unity – “Give you a spirit of unity…as you follow Christ Jesus.”  Once we have been encouraged by God, He also provides the ability to be unified with others of like precious faith.

3)    Spiritual encouragement primes us for giving glory to God – “With one heart and mouth you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ”.  As we are encouraged spiritually our desire will be to give God the glory that is due Him for all the wonderful things He does in this world and has done for us personally.

So, the next time you become discouraged, turn to God.  Let the spiritual encouragement you receive from Him prompt you to breathe a prayer of thanks to God for His incredible power.  Ask God to continue to work in and through you for His honor and glory.  Is there someone whom you need to encourage today with a telephone call, email or text?  Do it now.

The Love Factor

Since February is the “love month” let’s take time to examine this important subject and determine what kind of a love factor we have.  Many people think of love in terms of cozy affection or passionate devotion – what we might call “warm fuzzy feelings.”  However, when the Bible speaks about Christian love it speaks of a determined and active interest in the true welfare of others.  Love is not a feeling; love is an action word.  Christian love – the kind of love that should characterize the actions of those who name the Name of Christ – is a special kind of love.  It emanates from the love that God has for all people.  Christian love acts in godly ways.  Jesus said, “By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another” (John 13:35). 

The action this kind of love takes is described in these words: “Love is patient, love is kind.  It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.  Love does not delight in evil but rejoices in the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.  Love never fails” (I Corinthians 13:4-8).

A person who has this kind of love will not pass by someone in need but will reach out to help meet that need.  Examples of love-motivated action include such things as sharing a word of encouragement with someone, spending time listening to someone over a cup of coffee, provision of needed finances for those who are hurting, helping someone get to a doctor appointment, helping a neighbor with yard work, or helping an elderly person move down the hallway.  Whatever God prompts a Christian to do, love will help them respond willing, cheerfully and with great care.  When true love is the motive, the action is not carried out because of a duty to perform.  Duty is quick to obey rules; love seizes the opportunities.  Duty acts under certain limits; love is spontaneous and gracious.  Duty desires recognition or reward; love does not expect anything in return.  As you examine your life, what would you say is your love factor?  Make sure your love factor is high and measures up to God’s standard.

Time to Turn to God

Because of the pandemic situation in which we find ourselves, people often wonder, “What is most significant for me and my family?”  In what or in whom should I trust?  Should I trust in the national health authorities?  Governmental officials?  Human knowledge?  Should I wait until a vaccine is developed to take care of the pandemic?  What about trusting in a mask to keep me safe?  What about maintaining a social distance of 6-feet from other people? We could turn to all of these things but even so, there is still a certain amount of risk in each of these.

People would probably feel more comfortable if the amount of risk they face was reduced substantially or eradicated all together.  So, here is a good question for us to ask.  Is there anything or anyone that I can turn to in which I can have complete certainty?  What will give me the assurance for which I am searching?

I suggest that we take a look at the Old Testament in the Bible which tells about a king in the land of Israel whose name was Jehoshaphat.  The Israelites discovered that enemy forces were coming together against them.  In fact, these enemy forces turned out to be a huge army.  We are told that Jehoshaphat's first response to the imminent invasion was that of being alarmed.  He was afraid for himself and his people.  However, what he chose to do was to pray to God and then ask the people of Israel to fast and join him in prayer.  In Jehoshaphat’s prayer he said, “We have no power to face this vast army that is attacking us. We do not know what to do, but our eyes are on you” (II Chronicles 20:12).

In this prayer Jehoshaphat identified three things that were extremely important for the Israelites and and for him.  He suggested that (1) Human power was inadequate.  As a result it would be useless for anyone to turn to this kind of power.  (2) Knowledge would be insufficient.  As much as knowledge helps in other situations, by itself it would not be enough to defeat a huge army.  (3) The correct person to turn to was God.  To turn to God - the One who has divine authority and is omnipotent (all-powerful) - was the right choice.  Jehoshaphat turned to God because God had helped Israel with His great power in the past and He surely would do so again.

One of the priests of Israel encouraged Jehoshaphat not to be afraid or discouraged because of the great difficulty the nation was facing.  The reason, he reminded him, was simply because the battle was not theirs but it was God’s.  This did not mean that the Israelites were to stay in their tents, cover their heads and avoid the battle altogether.  He told Israel that they were to take up their positions and stand.  In other words, they were to get ready for battle.  Even with battle-readiness the Lord would be the one to deliver them – and He did.

Keeping our eyes on God and placing our trust in Him is the only action that will give you and me complete assurance and confidence during troubled times. Maybe it is about time for us as individuals, and as a country, to turn to God.

Heart Failure

During these days of the Covid-19 virus pandemic people are discouraged.  You have probably heard the words that are used to try to reassure people such as, “We’ll get through this”, “You’ll get through this” or “We’re all in this together.”  These words have been uttered in texts, in telephone conversations, on the internet, and on television.  The intent of these statements is that although everyone is going through things such as isolation, personal distancing, handwashing and staying in place – this will end – hopefully in the near future.

Since the pandemic is discouraging to so many people, let’s take time to look more closely at the word “discourage” and see what we can learn by dividing the word into two parts.  “Dis” is the first part of the word which has to do with failure.  The second part of the word – “courage” – points to the heart.  So, to be discouraged literally means to have heart failure.  When we get discouraged our motivation is either taken away from us or set aside because we lose our source of power.  To handle discouragement people need to get back to their source of power.  Of course, the Scripture points out that our real source of power is God, Himself.  II Peter 1:3 says, “His [God’s] divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness.”

Examining this verse more closely, you will notice several aspects of power.  (1) First, the power mentioned is God’s divine power.  He is the source of the power we need and of course, His power is much greater than any other power available to us.  (2) Second, God’s divine power has been given to us.  The "us" refers to people who are committed to God through a personal relationship – a life-sharing union with Him.  They are the recipients of His divine power.  (3) Third, God's divine power is complete and adequate.   His power does not simply provide a few things for us to enjoy, but gives us God's abundance - everything we need.  (4) Fourth, the divine power that God gives to us is to be utilized in daily living.  As we learn more about God – who He is, what He has done, and how He continues to work in our lives – we can rely on His strength each day.

Everyone needs God’s divine power.  You need it and I need it.  Ephesians 3:16 reminds us that God, “out of his glorious riches … strengthen(s) us with power through his Spirit.”  When we take time to accept God’s invitation to have a personal relationship with Him, we will possess His power which is at work in us.  Ephesians 3:20 explains it this way, “Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us.” God's power is an active power that can be displayed in our lives every day.  How will we get through this Covid-19 pandemic?  The answer is by relying on God’s divine power.  What a great encouragement this is to help us get us out of the doldrums of discouragement and make a difference in our world for the cause of Christ.  However, remember that we need God’s help to get our hearts on the right track so we can get through the Covid-19 difficulty.  Having God’s power reign in our lives is crucial for us to live the way He wants us to live. Why not turn from your "heart failure" – your discouragement – to God and let Him give you joyful encouragement?

Handling Fear

Those of you lived through the horrible, tragic events of September 11, 2001 remember the fear that spread through the minds of the people in America.  Most likely fear has been present in your mind during the current COVID-19 virus pandemic.  Many are fearful asking: What will happen to me?  What about my family?  Am I properly sanitizing my home?  Am I staying home?  Am I following the recommendations of the Center for Disease Control?  What about the recommendations of social distancing?  Am I properly washing my hands?  Am I doing all that I can do?

How do people handle fear?  Some people are afraid to do anything.  Others withdraw as if in a cocoon.  Some turn to busyness.  Others turn to habits—be they bad or good.  So, how should we handle fear?  In the Bible, the psalmist offers an alternate solution, which is a far better solution.  He simply said, “When I am afraid, I will trust in you” (Psalm 56:3).  Notice three things from this verse.  (1) There were times when the psalmist was afraid.  (2) The psalmist knew he had to turn somewhere to alleviate his fear. (3) The psalmist identified not just something in which to trust but Someone to trust.  Who is the “you” he mentioned in that Bible verse?  Of course, it is God.  When we are fearful we need to handle our fear the same way the psalmist did.

It is tragic when we turn to something other than the Lord to avoid the pains of reality or cover up a feeling of fear that we are experiencing.  When we turn to God, our Heavenly Father stands ready to help us through our trials, provide the protection we need, and encourages us with His presence and peace.  During these troubling and fearful times, let’s take the advice of the psalmist and trust God.